Couples Therapy in Calgary

Overview About Couples therapy

Welcome to Your Counselling – a place to answer all your questions about couples therapy in Calgary, marriage counselling, and other relationship services that will help you and your partner build a strong and far more fulfilling bond together. Whether you’re feeling stuck with communication issues, dealing with the fallout of infidelity, or you simply want to gain the tools needed to have a truly intimate partnership, our experienced therapists are here to help. With us as your guide, you’ll go on a transformative journey towards lasting harmony and mutual growth.

1) enhancing communication

In each couples therapy session, our counsellors provide a safe, neutral space where you and your partner can learn effective communication skills and become better at understanding what the other is trying to say. Through guided exercises and open dialogue, you will develop healthier ways of expressing your needs, concerns, and emotions, fostering deeper connections and less friction when having discussions.

2) resolving conflict

No matter how good your relationship is, you will inevitably have conflicts now and then. What most people struggle with is how to resolve those disputes without becoming angry or resentful. Couples counselling helps you navigate conflict and find constructive ways to resolve differences with productive discussions, and teaches you how to approach disagreements with empathy, active listening, and collaborative problem-solving techniques. This leads to more peaceful and satisfying resolutions.

3) rebuilding trust

If trust has been compromised by you or your partner – through infidelity, secrecy, or other negative behaviours – relationship counselling can provide a path to healing and rebuilding trust. If you genuinely wish to heal the wounds, our non-judgmental therapists offer guidance and support to help you and your partner work through issues of betrayal and forgiveness, and assist you in rebuilding a strong foundation of trust.

4) strengthening intimacy

Are you feeling like you’ve left the “honeymoon period” behind long ago? You’re not along – many couples struggle to keep true intimacy burning as the years go on. Couples therapy helps reignite and deepen emotional and physical intimacy within your relationship, showing you new ways to connect with each other and truly become an equal partnership. With our expert counsellors to talk you through it, you’ll learn to explore and express your needs, desires, and vulnerabilities.

5) nurturing growth

Couples therapy is not only about resolving immediate issues. It also looks to the future and paves the way for more personal and mutual growth. Therapists for couples provide tools and insights that empower you and your partner to get excited about the future, and that shared evolution brings about long-term relationship satisfaction and growth.

Still want more information? You can find deeper explanations in our blog about the benefits of couples counselling.

should we go to couples therapy?

In reality, this is a question that only you know the answer to. We believe that almost all couples can benefit from talking through their issues and enhancing their communication…but if you don’t believe it, too, then it will be hard to see the results you want.

Unfortunately, these kinds of therapy in Calgary – or in any place, for that matter – are not magic wands that can fix every problem. Healing broken trust, learning to communicate, and being truly bare and honest with one another takes effort, time, and consistency. With that said, if you feel like your relationship could be better (even if you can’t quite place why), it could be worth reaching out to a professional therapist to see what couples counselling can offer you.

1) initial assessment

Our therapists begin with an initial assessment, giving us a holistic understanding of your relationship’s dynamics, challenges, and goals. This assessment helps us tailor our approach and interventions to address your specific needs and aspirations.

2) goal setting

Once we have the foundation to work from, we establish clear goals for your therapy journey and outline the methods we’ll use to get there. Whether you’re seeking to improve communication, resolve conflicts, or enhance intimacy and trust, we can define concrete objectives that guide our sessions and measure progress.

3) Therapeutic approaches

Like we said above, every couple is different. So, our therapists draw on a range of evidence-based therapeutic approaches, specifically designed for couples therapy and marital counselling. These may include Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Gottman Method Couples Therapy, or Imago Relationship Therapy. There is no “right” approach or even one that’s “better” than the others – the most suitable one is that which resonates with you and allows you to consistently achieve your goals.

4) regular sessions

We offer flexible scheduling options and even couples therapy online sessions, generally once per week or every two weeks. Exact timing is based on your availability and needs. This consistency is key in any therapy, and allows you to track progress and ensure you’re staying on the right track.

5) relationship dynamics

Our therapists focus on understanding the dynamics within your relationship, including communication patterns, attachment styles, and underlying emotions. In turn, this helps to identify and transform negative patterns, leading to healthier interactions and a stronger bond between you and your partner.

6) skill-building exercises

Couples therapy in Calgary often involves practical exercises and homework assignments, tailored to your specific challenges and goals. These exercises provide opportunities for you and your partner to recall, develop, and practice the new skills and behaviours you’ve learned outside the sessions, strengthening the positive changes made during our meetings.

7) conflict resolution strategies

This is one of the most important areas of development for any couple in therapy. We’ll provide guidance on effective conflict resolution strategies and techniques, prioritizing communication with empathy, active listening, and genuine understanding that creates a more supportive environment at home and beyond.

8) ongoing support

Our therapists offer ongoing support and guidance throughout your therapeutic journey, even if there are unexpected obstacles. We are committed to helping you and your partner navigate any challenges and continue growing together. Ultimately, we want to give you everything you’ll need to build and maintain a healthy and fulfilling life-long relationship.